Ogadinma or everything will be alright by Ukamaka Olisakwe

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This has been on my reading list for a while now and I am glad I finally picked it up. Set in the 80s in Lagos and Kano Nigeria, the book tells the story of a young girl named Ogadinma who found herself at a disadvantage in gaining admission into the university and a series of events that followed in quick successions such as sexual abuse, pregnancy, abortion and domestic violence including physical assault.

Her non-objection may seem like consent but it was definitely abuse, she was just 17 years old and they made it seem like getting married was a chance for her to right her wrongs. When she was going through the abuses they advised her to stay through it and endure because that is what marriage is supposed to be about and she should not disrespect her husband.

Although I kept yearning for more at the end,  it was a good read overall and it further shows the way society heaped unreasonable expectations on females back then and even now and how there is still more to be done.

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Comments

Anonymous said…
Sounds like a good book. Please where can I buy the hard copy?
February 22, 2022 at 10:54 PM
Olaniyan Halimat said…
If you’re in Nigeria, please check “@Rovingheights” or “@Booksellers”
April 16, 2022 at 7:43 AM
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